Life skills are
abilities for adaptive and positive behavior that enable humans to deal
effectively with the demands and challenges of life. This concept is also
termed as psychosocial competency. The subject varies greatly depending on
social norms and community expectations but skills that function for well-being
and aid individuals to develop into active and productive members of their
communities are considered as life skills.
In the Arab world, people lack life skills because of the collective nature of the family. The fatherly figures do all relevant tasks and take all decisions. This makes the young generation lack life skills as they are never put in important situations. Many Arab students lack all these skills because of the idea of teaching to the test and the disregard of the notion of preparing students for life. Parents also believe that life skills are common sense and once their children grow up and are put in relevant situation they will know what to do.
The UNICEF Evaluation
Office suggests that "there is no definitive list" of psychosocial
skills; nevertheless UNICEF enumerates psychosocial and interpersonal skills
that are generally well-being oriented, and essential alongside literacy and
numeracy skills. Since it changes its meaning from culture to culture and life
positions, it is considered a concept that is elastic in nature. But UNICEF
acknowledges social and emotional life skills identified by Collaborative for
Academic, Social and Emotional Learning (CASEL). Life skills are a product of synthesis: many
skills are developed simultaneously through practice, like humor, which allows
a person to feel in control of a situation and make it more manageable in
perspective. It allows the person to release fears, anger, and stress and achieve a qualitative life.
For example, decision-making
often involves critical thinking ("what are my options?") and values
clarification ("what is important to me?"), ("How do I feel
about this?"). Ultimately, the interplay between the skills is what
produces powerful behavioral outcomes, especially where this approach is
supported by other strategies.
The World Health
Organization in 1999 identified the following core cross-cultural areas of life
skills:
decision-making and
problem-solving,
creative
thinking and critical thinking,
communication and
interpersonal skills,
self-awareness and
empathy,
assertiveness and
equanimity; and
resilience and coping
with emotions and coping with stress.
UNICEF listed similar
skills and related categories in its 2012 report. In the US, life skills curricula
designed for K-12 often emphasize communications and practical skills needed
for successful independent living as well as for
developmental-disabilities/special-education students with an Individualized
Education Program (IEP).
Many life skills
programs are offered when traditional family structures and healthy
relationships have broken down, whether due to parental lapses, divorce,
psychological disorders or due to issues with the children (such as substance
abuse or other risky behavior). For example, the International Labour Organization
is teaching life skills to ex-child laborers and at-risk children in Indonesia
to help them avoid and to recover from worst forms of child abuse. Such courses are not available in the Arab world. Even those Human Resource programs are considered "common sense" and many of those who enroll either drop out or give the feedback that it is "common sense".
References:
Andrew J. DuBrin (2016). Human Relations for Career and Personal Success: Concepts, Applications, and Skills. Pearson Education. ISBN 978-0-13-413171-9.
"Life Skills Education for Children and Adolescents in Schools" World
Health Organization
November 2018.
"Global evaluation of life skills education programmes" (PDF).
www.unicef.org (Evaluation Report). New York: United Nations Children’s Fund.
August 2012. p. 8-9. Retrieved 21 November 2018.
Reaching Your
Potential: Personal and Professional Development, 4th Edition.
Questions for Discussion:
Questions for Discussion:
" People in the Arab world lack life skills". |Do you agree with the statement? Explain.
Would you enroll in courses for life skills? Why?
Would you enroll in courses for life skills? Why?